> You have to be 10 - 12 points better than the home team in those situations, and the referees are always a bigger factor than the home fans or familiarity with court.
Absolutely true. And if you don't play 10-12 points better, that's the way it goes. When they come to your gym, the same thing happens to them. And do you go on the board and point out how much the refs favored you? Or is it that the refs only favor the other teams, never yours?
Officials are human and are biased, at every level and in every sport. That's part of the game, like injuries or missed free throws or the clock not starting on time.
So complaining about getting homered is like complaining about the sun rising in the east -- really, you got homered a long way from home? Now that's a shock.
With every loss, then, let's just list the reasons why:
1) My second best player was dehydrated and missed the fourth quarter;
2) My best player's feet were hurting, and she was 4-17 from the field and 3-10 from the line;
3) My starting guard is out for the year;
4) Two girls play significant minutes who never played more than independent middle school basketball;
5) A girl made a half-court shot at the end of the third quarter in a close game;
6) The ref got in the way of a girl in a tie game late and she couldn't get a steal she otherwise would have had;
7) I gave a player bad instructions late in the game.
Or how about
The other team did what it needed to do to win the game, and we didn't.