The question is why would a kid (presumably living in San Francisco) go to Mitty? There are plenty of quality programs in City and mid-peninsula that would not be a commuter nightmare. The young man will get the looks, regardless. I presume during off season, he plays with a number of Mitty players, he and his parents like them, one conversation leads to another and bingo. Who wouldnt want the talented kid on their roster?
Now if the parent's work in the area, O.K., moved closer, O.K. He has family/family friend he is moving in with, O.K. This is not college; it's high school. I'm I missing something. Otherwise, Kennedy is turning a blind eye for the sake of his success, not the young man's. Again, if the parents or he has relatives in the Mitty area, its a mute point. Bottom line, it's odd. For your reason you listed above (ie player sign off, contribute to your program, etc.) True, he doesnt have to say no, but a bigger coach would say, have you considered all your options closer to home. Because presumably, the pressure and the negative perception will be on Kennedy to approve the move.