Yeah, I'm not saying there is ONE way to coach, but if it's that coaches decision to be an A-hole and it's his/her style, why not just deal with it, suck it up, and continue to play hard; especially if he/she is successful!I find that too many times you read about parents having too much control. They don't like a coach, they run to the admin and say that they're not talking enough to the kids, or they're abusive, or whatever it takes to get a coach ousted. What parents don't understand is that coaches make minimal money and do it cause they love basketball. Coaches need to understand that one size doesn't fit all, especially in this day and age with parents and players that need a therapist when that they are doing is corrected.
I totally agree that a 3rd grade CYO team shouldn't be coached in the same way as a JV or varsity team. The expectations should be the same in that coaches get players to play hard, respect one another, and develop.
I also agree that a team is stronger when you have accountability. You know that you have built a program when players are the ones who are holding players accountable and the coach only has to worry about coaching.
I know that's ideal but I'd like to see if this is the case where winning programs have this culture in place.