I am a SMS parent. My daughter has several friends on the BOD squad and I have a great rapport with a lot of the parents. There's a mutual respect there. By no means do I think any of those parents and players want ANY team to lay down and not play them at 100%. And I know for sure if the shoe was on the other foot, BOD would have done the same thing.
One thing I think people need to keep in mind is this is, and has been a rivalry match up for years. I know cause my kid and I have been to the last 4 meetings, even prior to her attending SMS. Two elite squads playing one another full fledge, at no point should either team, pull out and show mercy. One other thing is, SMS had their bench players in for pretty much the whole 4th quarter, playing against BOD's bench. I know this was big for our bench, to see the floor in such an elite game, so I am sure it was the same for BOD. So the bench sees the floor, but from what you're saying they're not supposed to play, but instead pull the ball out and play keep away? How is that fair to them?
What I can't understand is people always target SMS, but fail to mention what their opponents do in that very same game. Did you not see the BOD female asst. coach heckling SMS pg #13, Sierra Smith, who just so happens to be my kid. It started with a player telling another player she can't dribble, kept trying to get in my kid's head. That's ok, cause that's a kid, and some would think very tactical on her part to try to take an opponent out of the game mentally. But when you have a grown person, a coach at that, shouting this out, time and time again, getting her bench involved, that is wrong.
I am not going to lie, I probably was one of those annoying parents you're talking about, because after the coach started heckling my kid, and the BOD crowd got extremely loud encouraging their kids, I admit, I got a little amped up myself. Plus bench players deserve the same kind of encouragement when they get in as the starters. At the end of the game, my kid and her BOD friends hugged, talked, and laughed like nothing took place. And like always I mingled with a lot of the BOD parents. No hard feelings, everything was left on the floor.
This post was edited on 2/15 8:13 AM by KKRoss
This post was edited on 2/15 8:15 AM by KKRoss