Give me $2 million, give me $5 million, it does not matter. I did not grow up in Stockton. I grew up in San Mateo county in a place called Hillsborough, and attended San Mateo High School, left for SoCal to attend USC. I moved to Stockton because my wife, who I met in Glendale/Burbank, has her family all in Stockton. At first, like many of you, I was saying WTF! This is not a place to raise a family. However, after getting married in beautiful Morris Chapel (1 year waiting list), learning about the NICER (yes, very few) places in Stockton, and able to purchase a beautiful house on a lake for 1/5 the amount it would cost us if we lived in Hillsborough, not to mention the lifelong property taxes, and most of all living amongst "family" vs "snobs", I would say we are quite content where we are. I don't need a mansion to be happy. Been there done that, and wasn't always so happy living in a huge house. But, I do live the finer life in Stockton (2600 sq ft house on a lake, where I don't need a fishing license to fish) and make the best of it, as bad as the surrounding areas are. As a former boss (son-in-law to the Klein's) once said to me when I put in my pool using Geremia ... if it's good enough for Spanos, I guess it is good enough for you.
You guys only focus on the negative parts of Stockton. That's a shame. If I can't sell you the finer parts of Stockton, I really don't care. I know Folsom has its nice parts and close to nice neighborhoods like Roseville and Granite Bay. I have very good friends from Roseville whose kids attended Granite Bay (when they lived in Granite Bay). Managing my business from home and checking into the office (in San Ramon) once a week, sure I could do from a place in Folsom. But, don't need that commute. But, I have long-time friends here in Stockton (good people). I have family (my wife's) here in Stockton (good people). I know what it is like to being amongst snobs, I grew up with them. Trust me! My family still lives in Hillsborough and siblings in surrounding areas of San Mateo, like San Carlos, Redwood City, Millbrae, and Foster City. Yes, I grew up with a big Catholic family. I enjoy visiting with them, but I can't stand living with them or being too close to them. Hence, why I left for SoCal for college. Sure, USC is not in the best place in CA (So Central LA) and sure, there are tons of snobs attending this school, but there were some good people there, too, from other places outside of California I can still call friends. I have my degree from USC and live a very comfortable life in a place I am proud to call "home". Will I move and start over? Maybe, if my boys settle down and move to somewhere else, I might follow them. But, for now, why move to a place where I only know a few people and away from family? Family (which I also call my friends) is what has me rooted here in Stockton, really nothing more. Ask Alex Spanos why he "still" lives in Stockton. I bet you he would give you a very similar answer. You don't see him moving to Folsom and he has a whole lot more than $2 million. Now do you?
I am well aware of the crime issues in Stockton. But, I am not a coward that runs away from issues. Crime is everywhere, just more so in many parts of Stockton (but not all parts). Look at the heat maps I posted in my prior post. What do you see? You see crime in Stockton and Folsom, just a lot more in Stockton, especially in the low income areas. But, you see a lot of safe (green) areas, too. If you gave me $2 million and asked me to move into a low income area of Stockton, of course, I would say "NO WAY!". But, what I can get for $2 million where I live now, I have already. More so, I have wonderful friends and family. Unless you can move all of my friends and all of my family to Folsom, it's a NO for me. I don't want to be G61's neighbor ... HELL NO! I grew up with enough Richard's in my life in Hillsborough. Sorry, not for me. Ask the DLS fans if they want G61 for a neighbor. LOL!
If I had a choice between Folsom or Roseville, I would pick Roseville. Although, I love my cousins in Folsom, I love my friends in Roseville more. Just more friendlier people in Roseville than Folsom from my visits. Ask my cousins if they know their neighbors. The answer would be "NO". Ask me if I know my neighbors, you betcha! Just finished this past weekend with our annual lake chili cookout. It was a blast!
BTW. Did I mention the "ignore" button works wonders. So G61, if you are reading this, post away. I really don't care. LOL! Dang! I wish I had this when I grew up in Hillsborough. LOL! Oh wait, I did. I moved to Glendale and attended USC. Go USC Trojans! Go St. Mary's Rams!