@GetOnTheBoards Please enlighten us as to who these "full time" coaches are. I've met many coaches in the area and I don't know if any of them are making a living off of it.
I can agree with you on the part about the silicon valley mentality possibly having an impact. Alpha personality CEOs and other c-level executives are bound to carry that same mentality as parents. No different than the pressure some kids get to go to certain colleges or get certain jobs. Money is not an object in the equation for some of these parents/students, and that matters. So when they think they have found an avenue for their kids to succeed, they shoot for the moon. Now, personally I think this is a fairly small percentage overall.
I think a bigger percentage of kids at the youth level are suffering from a lack of quality coaching. NJB is dead because of parent coaching. Middle schools have less and less teacher-coaches or consistency with coaches, causing them to rely on parents as well. Don't get me started on every dad who thinks they can coach making an AAU team now. You have to remember that at the high school level, being able to coach a few seasons and being successful is very very different than building a program of continued success. At the youth level there are less and less coaches that are in it for the long haul AND great at what they do. It's tough, the job doesnt pay, the hours suck, the parents are the worst, teaching is hard. I get why folks call it quits or move to greener pastures (aka private schools or higher paying AAU gigs). Cream rises to the top and that doesn't just go for players.