Trash talk. My kids always told me those guys, once they got pancaked or trucked, had an attitude adjustment. Just saying.
We (yes, even on the Peninsula) know of one VERY hyped QB, from a VERY prominent local program, with a VERY strategized plan to attend a VERY, VERY big time program. He did not transfer when he was beat out FOUR times. Do you think he and his family were foolish for choosing that route, because he did not get drafted? He DID compete, then and after, again, without (your?) apparent measure of success. He competed.
My measure, please note, is less myopic. He met his gal there. (Check.) He completed his degree. (Check.) And like millions of others before him, and those that follow, will put bread on the table NOT because he self-identified as an athlete (and a competitor,) but because it contributed to character. (Final check.)