Thank you, Nathan is loving it so far and is with a really good group of student-athletes. Should be a great place to grow and develop in all areas of life. He had a great summer overseas and is excited.
Now on to SHC, I could write a book on all the drama I saw but I really like the upper-level admin folks and have respect for Coach DB, so I will never do that but... I will say what I believe the major issue is, has been, and will continue to be.
The program has had talent but when you have talent on your team that usually means knowledgeable parents about the game. The parents of talented kids understand the game and have expectations of the program from a developmental perspective.
Parents of talented athletes want scholarship offers and if a coach is not winning that's a problem in the scholarship process. If a coach can't make calls to D1 coaches, send emails regularly or have D1 coaches come to practice to see these kids, its a problem. If the HS coach is just relying on the AAU coach to get the kid a scholarship, it's a problem. In most cases (during my time), SHC basketball parents watch their kid play against other WCAL kids at the youth level and dominate these kids, but once they get to SHC the tables turn and the talented kids are getting beat by a less talented team. This creates problems on and off the court.
While at SHC some of the best basketball conversations were with the parents of talented kids. But I consistently would hear the parents are the problem, lol. The parents were never the problem and in most cases, coaches on the HS level just don't know how to deal with parents and misunderstand the parent's role and dismiss the hard work these parents have put into making sure their kid has been developed to be the best basketball player they can be while putting the kid in a position to get one of the 18K spots available at the D1 level out of a pool of 500K.
The pressure on a HS coach to get a kid a D1 scholarship is real. We have all these basketball social media groups highlighting kids all year long and because it's on social media or a camp highlight WE all think the kid is a D1 player. But the reality, obtaining a D1 scholarship is hard work and it takes a number of factors and people to make this possible. How many Bay Area or NorCal player for that matter was highlighted on social media as being a D1 player or the best in NorCal and actually received a D1 scholarship? I don't know but I would guess not more than 15.
Until SHC understand that if they want talented kids and desire winning they must be prepared to deal with the expectations of parents of talented kids as well as putting in a considerable amount of work preparing and pushing these kids to the next level. No parent is going to want to attend or stay at SHC if they can clearly see the desired expectations are not going to be met.
Hello Dr. Markppd. I liked your above comments and enjoyed your son playing for SHC. Nate always had a nice shooting range and touch and was a nice young man. His demeanor was cool and calm. I liked him and he was definitely a good kid. Having said all this, SHC had decent players those years your son was there. (Hollins, etc) I noticed you had a little son too and watched him shoot around during the games (at half time) and thought he would eventually be coming to SHC when the time came. I was disappointed to hear players like Hollins and your son left. During those seasons, SHC didn't have the best players or play to their potential as a team either compared to the rest of the league. SI had a stellar team the last two years and Serra, St. Francis, Bellarmine, and Mitty were no joke either. You stated you respected D. Barbour, but even when he was there he couldn't get the kids to play their best ball or play defense anymore as it seemed that way from the outside. Mr. Barbour had a nice pipeline with the SF rebels that brought a lot of talent to Ellis Street though and I'm not sure that pipeline is still there. I surmise if Barbour was still there though would your son have stayed instead of attending Walnut Creek? Can you elaborate on why we underperformed was it the coaching style or the kids didn't buy into the system anymore? Or were the expectations from the parents too high? Other than that, I agree with everything you said, there is a disconnect and I do not want to see SHC to continue to lose those good athletes especially in the basketball program when just 5-6 years ago they seem to have it all. As you know, the WCAL is no slouch league and is considered one of the best. The school needs to go back to the basics and figure it out. From what I am reading , it has to be three things. It seems like the admin office is not talking to the coaching staffs or the admin is not listening to the grants and financial aid office. But all three have to figure it out and compromise somewhere. It is never a good thing to lose 3-5 good players with some potentially playing two sports when you had them at the school in the first place. It is odd because as another observer said, the girls side does not have these problems. Maybe they need a liaison for the parents too since parents can be overbearing and unrealistic at times too. At the end of the day, we want student athletes that stay and everyone who posted said the academic and admin side were great and had no complaints. So is it really coaching or differences of opinion or just different methods in the end? About six years ago, SI had a star kid that left and didn't graduate and went to pre-entry Georgetown and then transferred to Cal? (Domingo) Kids do come and go but losing someone like like Monroe and Neal hurts the basketball team this year and next year no matter what anyone says. The kid Monroe already had college offers and leaving would not stop the offers but the fact he went to a rival school says more he didn't like the coach or the management style of some sort. Really sad because I talked to his parents at one of the games and they told me Bryce Monroe could have gone anywhere and I truly believe that but he picked SHC. Sad that the school couldn't compromise or work something out with all involved and hope this is a wake call to the admin and coaching staff. Learn from the mistakes SHC, ..Monroe was nice catch but SHC you got to know how to keep them once you have them. Mr. MarkPPD, would you consider your younger son going to SHC to play basketball if he wanted, what would have to change?
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