This is a more important topic, and a tougher one, than just bashing individual posters, I think ...
So on the one hand, we have a certain obligation to respect the privacy of individuals, especially young ones.
On the other, we have a system that rewards schools (through publicity, enrollment, etc.), coaches (camps, respect, opportunities) and players (scholarships) for their success in basketball.
The attention that is paid to girls' basketball teams and players is a reward, a positive, and can result in significant gains for those involved. Without that attention, none of the rewards exist. No scholarships, worth at least $150,000 at the D1 level, no preferred admission, etc.
With that attention, which creates the rewards, comes questioning. If a girl scores 35 points in a game, or makes a key play, she gets headlines and if she does it often enough, she gets a very real payday, and a significant one. And if an important player suddenly disappears off a roster, that same attention that gets her a reward now shifts to why she's not playing.
So are questions about why she's not playing legitimate? Is it wrong to ask the question?
Now, it's OK to answer the question if she's hurt, and that answer actually might have a bigger impact on her chances to get that big reward. A torn ACL can take a scholarship away in a heartbeat (and I coached a player that happened to), but we report that with no hesitation.
Yet answering the question and saying it's an academic issues is wrong, even though that can be fixed and may have a much lesser impact on a girl's career.
There are differences, of course, but I do think this discussion is worth having (without bashing) because it's really at the heart of high school athletics. We could not talk about them at all, have no coverage, no state tournament, no scholarships, and no one's injuries or grades would ever be mentioned.
But if we do talk about them, where is the line drawn about what's OK and what's not OK when a player suddenly disappears from a roster? A vague "personal reasons" will lead to all sorts of unsavory speculation (drugs, etc.) but maybe that's the best way to go. But to not even comment at all counters the general idea that all this matters in some way, and if a girl scores 25 points a game, she should get headlines and a free education.