california_bball, like I said in my post, my kid has several friends on the BOD (AT, AR, Aerial, Zakiya, Maya), and playful trash talking was done the whole night. A BOD player heckled my kid, along with a coach, loud enough for everyone to hear, shouting take the ball, she can't dribble. Your perception of what actually happened is very understandable being you don't know the relationships. But like I said, those same players and Sierra were laughing and hugging after the game.
I will tell you this, I had a talk with Sierra when we got home last night. I told her that perception is everything, to watch some of her gestures as some may judge her because of it, even though we know it's not coming from a bad place. I can't wait to show her this as an example. Life lesson learned.
I stand behind what I said in my post, and not because I think my kid is infallible, and doesn't make bad decisions or react inappropriately at times, but because of what I hear from others, teachers, coaches, parents, supporters, etc. BTW california_bball, Sierra received the Jim Capoot Memorial Award at the WCJ for exemplifying inspiration and sportsmanship. In 3 days of game play, out of all the players in the Platinum Division, someone saw enough in my kid to think she deserved the award. Sierra knows the ones who REALLY know you, know the REAL you. The ones who choose to judge you off of what they heard and/ or off of one incident which may have displayed uncharacteristic behavior, rather than trying get to know the real you, well those people don't matter.
Like I tell my kid, there's always going to be someone looking for something to say, looking to point out the negative, to assassinate your character, and that's ok. You can't please everybody, just have to focus on being a better you for YOU!!!
This post was edited on 2/15 8:20 PM by KKRoss
This post was edited on 2/16 8:03 AM by KKRoss